Who is not averse to a rehabilitation date! What mental pressure the thought of a blind date evokes, even if we have seen the card and the photo of our date. However, past experience shows us that sometimes the guy in the picture or the cutie with the plunging neckline is different in reality from the heartwarming picture. Even if we meet someone amazing on a date, additional excitement awaits us - we have to survive the interview and the meeting, in which we are constantly tested on appearance, clothing, grooming and other competitive parameters.

so what are we doing? Give up the chance to kiss a frog that will turn into a prince? Sitting on the fence, biting your nails and complaining and doing nothing to promote your love life? no and no!

Here are some tactics that will make your date relaxed, experiential and fun:

Set a time for the meeting

Also on the preliminary phone that is intended for coordination, tell the other party that you can devote an hour to the meeting because you have another commitment. Try to schedule a meeting with friends an hour later, so that at least the rest of the evening will be pleasant, in case the date was not a great success.

Set a nearby meeting place

If you arrange the date in a cafe or dance bar close to where you live, you won't have to worry about parking problems. This way you will also have a quick escape option, if there is no chemistry between you.

Go on a daily date

Try to arrange a date in the afternoon after work. That way, if there is no match, you can continue to the gym, the movie or the restaurant and change the atmosphere.

Get in the bath

Two hours before the date, soak in a hot water bath with a few drops of perfume or bath foam. This is how you will feel in a pleasant, caressing and foaming dream. The sensual smell will give you many credit points that will improve the chances of chemistry and the smell will accompany you for some time even after the date.

Meditate

After you have finished soaking in the fragrant bath, you have chosen what to wear and you still have a little more than an hour before the date, listen to the first meditation CD of its kind that I produced: "Meditation for a relaxed date" (Click here to listen to an excerpt from it). The disc will immediately calm you down and make you the loudest and most desirable in the world. While listening, lie with your eyes closed, surrender to the calm and then rush into the final preparations for the date.

Remember - every date brings you closer to finding a suitable relationship. Better to kiss frogs than sit on the fence.