The User

The User's Guide to Dating Sites

In an age where every second couple divorces and returns to the job market and the number of singles approaches one and a half million, the Internet serves as a paradise for those looking for love. One of the justified fears of surfers looking for love is falling for married men and in descending order for liars who give inauthentic details about themselves.

Hana Isler, a single single parent, went on a virtual search and, unlike others, she documented her experiences in a debut book: "My 1001 Men on the Internet". Hannah talks about the married men who are looking to diversify their 'prison house', what they will do to get sex and all the other problematic men she has met.

This is a must-read for anyone looking for love on dating sites, as it provides an authentic glimpse into the online searchers' audience and helps to beware of the non-serious searchers who are only interested in hookups. Those who read the revealing and peace-disturbing book will be able to increase the internal control system and risk less in the process of searching for a partner.

It is better to navigate than to be navigated

The message that comes through while reading the book is that dating sites, like en.dately.co.il, are important for finding love. The more solid and reputable the site, the lower your risk of heartbreak.

I liked Hana's message in the chapter talking about types of men. The chapter gives a lot of food for thought and also talks about proportions and dealing with rejection: "Since I have taken my destiny into my own hands and I don't expect the stars to fall into my bucket, I strive towards them with strength. At most I will be rejected. It won't make me crash. So one day I decided to be the initiator. It turns out that men really like it - I take away from them the need to go back and take responsibility for what they hate and they feel inflated: this woman started with me! Of course I'm worth it. I think that a day will come and all women will come to the conclusion that it is better to steer than to be steered. I'm already used to it."

She warns the love seekers about the men who are only looking for sex and are not willing to invest, about those who are only looking for information about you and do not volunteer information about themselves and most importantly - how to recognize and beware of the professional singles who are looking for a woman as a profession and not as a real goal. Mainly, she says, one should avoid the single person who has a permanent girlfriend and is looking for hookups: "Come to me." We'll talk, eat and if you want, we'll have fun. I have a girlfriend, but every now and then I cross over to the studs. If she finds out - she kills me."

You will not be able to stop reading this authentic and entertaining book and later you will receive tools on how to be more careful online.

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