How much trouble, anguish of soul and waste of energy would be saved if the love seekers did not ignore the direct and hidden messages spoken by couples who have just met on the dating site. We call you to free yourself from wrong rituals you do in relationships and our message is unequivocal: be attentive to the behavior of your suitors!!

Men or women often tell that they met someone charming online. They say that in the beginning the relationship was difficult or disappointing because the other party is not built for a relationship or because he is debating whether to stay in Israel.

As the size of the expectations - the size of the disappointments

Usually, those who tell you they are not interested in a relationship mean it! And what does the challenged love seeker think? "Oh poor thing, he must have been through a severe disappointment on the way, someone hurt him and that's why he reacts like this. I will see to it that he falls in love with me!". Then comes the effort phase. The more the interested party tries, the more the other party takes everything for granted and loses interest. Usually the interested person goes up a grade, invests in courtship, performance, treats and of course get to the bed stage. The girl will make spaghetti in bed, pamper herself, let loose and think in her heart that as the sexual thrills go up a grade, there is a chance that the commitment refuser will turn on her. She invests and invests and so does the man who is interested in an indifferent partner, but the size of the expectations - the size of the disappointments. The indifferent becomes more indifferent and exploitation just goes up a notch. There is no commitment, a word is not a word, no investment and no courtships.

Those who are stuck are stuck

The conclusion is unequivocal: if you are looking for a healthy, supportive, giving and happy relationship, be attentive to what they tell you on the first date. If you are told that you are hot, beautiful and interesting, but the other party is not interested in a binding relationship but only in thrills or if you are told about a relationship that has just ended and left a heartbreak or about a marriage that has just ended after a divorce war and therefore the heart is still not free - believe it and don't get involved To be the compassionate social worker, because it doesn't pay.

He who restores an injured partner, will not gain fruit. Usually the person experiencing disappointment doesn't want to be perceived as a weak person, so after he gets stronger, he will move on to another place and you will be left hurt. We suggest that you, even on the phone, gently ask if the person you are about to meet is emotionally available, otherwise it is a waste of your energy. You won't change anyone, you won't make them feel a desire for commitment or want to cut ties with a mythical ex. Those who are stuck are stuck and it is not your job to be anyone's psychologists and certainly not the saviors, because you will not succeed!

He who invests - sinks

If you invest in the wrong person, you will need psychological help. Keep your feelings tight tight. Don't be in a hurry to invest and sink, slowly open up only to a person like you who is really open and interested in love.

If you always get stuck with a person who is not looking for a committed relationship, this is your sign to go to personal training, open everything up and find out why you are attracted to impossible stories and understand what is hidden behind this motive

And what do you gain from it? When you find out, you can really reach better romantic realms.

Lots of love and a healthy relationship.