There is a situation where he is also in love
If you fell in love prematurely and want to tell him that, even if he doesn't say it a lot, get over your fears. We suggest you enjoy the beginnings
You started dating a charming guy and just after a week you realized you were in love,
To you who have realized that you are in love and are already dying to tell him this, even though you have the feeling that he is still in the stages of pure lust and enthusiasm…
To you who think that this stage means that he will not love you in the future and that even if he looks at you in this way, it means that he does not respect or value you.
You who think that after he has already told you that he loves you, you rush to get excited if he doesn't say it as often as you say - at least once an hour…
You who think that after he realized that he loves you, if he doesn't tell you this at least once a day, he probably regretted it and doesn't love you at all….
To you who think that starting is a nightmare, because you don't know what will happen in a second…
did you fall in love Rejoice!
Know that it's the most natural thing in the world for you to fall in love quickly if the guy really does it for you, and don't let anyone give you the feeling that "Oh, it's probably just enthusiasm, what are you a 12-year-old girl who falls in love with the second?" There is nothing to do, the fanatics will eat your heart and you will fill your heart! It's natural, it's fun and yes - you're allowed to feel happy that you found love, even if it happened in a split second!
don't stress
Understand that most men will be stressed if you tell them in front of them that you love them, just as we women would be stressed - precisely for the obvious reason that if we cannot say back "I love you too", we will feel like we are chasing time and the scrutinizing eyes of our partner who is waiting for us to reach his stage.
take a deep breath
Give him time, he will get there on his own. It is true that men are usually competitive and want to be first in everything, but here, the rules of male competition do not work. You're not really a car or a football game.. so take a deep breath, write it in pink a thousand times, but the main thing - leave your falling in love scoop with you…
Think about the future
If you want that in a few years he will look at you as a juicy stick and get horny just seeing you, and not just think "how smart she is, how much I appreciate her" (because he also appreciates the grandmother from the house next door very much and you don't really want the only thing he feels when he looks at you to be the same as what he feels when he looks at Tsili, the grandmother from the house next door), enjoy the stage he is in and take care to preserve him, along with his falling in love with you .
He is afraid of losing… control
Know that even if he told you he loves you, he gets used to it… It is difficult for him to understand that from now on everything you ask for, especially if it comes with a tear, he will feel obliged to give it to you, otherwise it will pinch his face… Losing control scares him…
It has its own rhythm
Be calm, he didn't regret if he doesn't tell you every day that he loves you, he's just not like you, he has his own rhythm, his own frequency, his own way, which is why you fell in love with him.
Let him live, let him be and give yourself the knowledge - that he loves you, he means what he says, he didn't just say it out of lust or out of a feeling of coercion… He really really loves you! (Now you can really smile…)
You will still miss the beginning
And to you, who loves stability and not beginnings… What's happening to you? First kiss, first falling in love, butterflies, a strong desire to already see him, rubbing each other wherever possible, sex in public places, sex for hours that lasts into the night, an erection just by seeing you, never-ending sweetness, no mandatory meetings with parents.. Enjoy !!!! You will still tell him in the future, "Why don't we have what we had in the beginning?" In the beginning you kept surprising me…. " - Have fun!
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